How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 02.07.2025 07:35

How does one succeed in life?

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

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Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

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Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

How can I stop overthinking and take action more quickly?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Does not procrastinate.

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Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

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Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

What I need from you?

Ask yourself:

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First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

What should I be looking for when trying out running shoes? Local store lets me try the shoe and jog up and down the block, but they mostly feel the same to me. Is there some feeling or anything else specific I should be looking for?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

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Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Do not set goals—set systems.

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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

That's it for today.

Hangs out with loser friends.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Procrastinates a lot.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Making more friends is a goal.

Losing 20kg is a goal.